I was in work yesterday walking through the shop and some girl I know who works there started slapping her hands on her thighs and kept saying 'come on boy' as if I was a dog or something.
Anyway as I approached her I just nervously smiled and said to her that she's cheeky, I then lost my temper and said I'm not a ****ing dog you know and she just laughed. She made me look like a right **** as I'm 21 and she's like 3 years younger than me, this makes me think I'm retarded or something.
I was just wondering how I should deal with this properly next time, should I let it bother me or not. I feel like a right loser because of this and the fact she's In a better job than I am, I can't be much of a man if people are calling me 'boy' and doing patronising me like that.
What the hell should I do?
Anyway as I approached her I just nervously smiled and said to her that she's cheeky, I then lost my temper and said I'm not a ****ing dog you know and she just laughed. She made me look like a right **** as I'm 21 and she's like 3 years younger than me, this makes me think I'm retarded or something.
I was just wondering how I should deal with this properly next time, should I let it bother me or not. I feel like a right loser because of this and the fact she's In a better job than I am, I can't be much of a man if people are calling me 'boy' and doing patronising me like that.
What the hell should I do?
via Social Anxiety Forum http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f24/dealing-with-people-who-are-patronising-323345/
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