What do you do when you fail at something? how do you react, what effects does it have on you and your behaviours?
I dont mean just failing something; i also mean when people hurt you, when events conspire to hurt and/or take things from you, when people give negative criticism of you, and take things from you; like it seems that the world is against you.
This affects me imensely, it results in all kinds of behaviours, it can be something seemingly trivial (to others maybe, but not to you).
I hate life for this because i have never been shown, taught how to cope with it properly. I hate my mother and siblings because they often did this to me but never taught me how to cope with it.
What support can i expect to help me with this? Who can i ask? what do i asl for?
I dont mean just failing something; i also mean when people hurt you, when events conspire to hurt and/or take things from you, when people give negative criticism of you, and take things from you; like it seems that the world is against you.
This affects me imensely, it results in all kinds of behaviours, it can be something seemingly trivial (to others maybe, but not to you).
I hate life for this because i have never been shown, taught how to cope with it properly. I hate my mother and siblings because they often did this to me but never taught me how to cope with it.
What support can i expect to help me with this? Who can i ask? what do i asl for?
via Social Anxiety Forum http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f33/failure-411697/
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