Nobody wants to break the SA cycle

Having joined this SA community quite a while ago I am not a newbie any more. I have read and analyzed much stuff and shaped an opinion that the people suffering from SA do not want to become normal. I mean, it seems like they are satisfied with all they have and do not seek any changes in their lives. They keep ranting that it is impossible to get employed, make friends, live separately from the parents and create families because of the SA. Once they get rid of SA everything gets different and changes for better. But their unemployment, lack of friends and absence of love fosters the progressing of SA, the SA arises on the ground of all those life misfortunes. So it is all a closed cycle. SA breeds the conditions leading to the people's being outcast and unhappy and it prevents them from starting a new life and becoming a productive individual. People turn to doctors for some pills but a tablet alone can not make you happy, neither can it develop your communicative skills and resolve your life problems. It merely balances the mood swings. The people say they want to get employed but a stable unemployment benefit is a pretty good excuse for many jobless people who do not really want to do much. However, I do believe some individuals have no job opportunities at all. And in no case do I say that the people should be deprived of the unemployment benefits, it would be cruel. But I do want to stress that for many folks it grows into a way of life to stay jobless and thus live with parents because a separate apartment means more money and they can't afford it. And those people are very lonely but they do not really want to connect their lives with anyone for fear of SA and because they live with parents. So they just relieve their sensual desires and tensions by rubbing their special private parts themselves. I think the men who do it do not need women. It can give them some pleasure without any fulfillment but some simple-minded folks do not need any fulfillment so it is sufficient for them to do it themselves. And they also feel high by means of alcohol so they do not need anything else. They do not crave for anything else. All is well.

I know my posting can be easily refuted.It can also provoke a fury of the community. I apologize if I am wrong but it is only my opinion. Thank you for reading this.

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