So, imagine in those times when you are so weak you need help. But other people won't be able to help you. No medication will help. You are drowning in your self pity and frustration. To the point you see no reason in life anymore.



Emptiness, desperation, not seeing meaning and hope in life anymore, and falling back on your depressive self are all reasons people want to die and commit suicide. In this case God is our help and savior who rescues us from death.



So without your own strength, others or God who is there to support you in those moments and pull you out of the negativity and darkness? Who is your savior?





via Social Anxiety Forum http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f132/who-is-your-help-and-savior-335769/

UH-OH, you guys!


It looks like Rachel McAdams may not be the only actress on Eva Mendes ' sh-t list!


Although in this case, it's not over being moves being made on her man, Ryan Gosling ! It's over movie ROLES!


According to sources, the actress is INSANE with jealousy over Jessica Chastain and the success she's garnered during Awards season over the movie roles she's picked, and has even signed with the Zero Dark Thirty star's agent, Hylda Queally, in hopes that she won't be typecast any longer for her sex appeal!


Insiders explain:



“Eva’s been almost obsessed with Jessica since she played the part of Maya in Zero Dark Thirty, a role Eva wanted for herself. It is as if Eva lives to please Ryan and is desperate to impress him. I think he is very controlling and tells her he thinks she can do better. It’s no coincidence that she’s now with Hylda… aside from Jessica, Hylda looks after Cate Blanchett and Marion Cotillard , so she knows her stuff. Eva told Hylda to send her to whatever auditions Jessica attends. She’s tired of being typecast as the love interest and wants to be a leading lady. But Eva’s problem is she’s just too sexy. She’s got a real mountain to climb to really get away from bombshell roles.”



YEESH!


This all seems a little...INTENSE, wouldn't you say?!


We're all for attempting to break past stereotypes and find more challenging, out-of-the-box roles, but we DO NOT think the proper way to do that is to assign another person as your standard for success!


These types of scenarios just NEVER end well!


What do U think?? Is Eva Mendes dangerously obsessed with Jessica Chastain??


[Images via WENN .]






via PerezHilton http://perezhilton.com/2013-03-31-eva-mendes-jealous-of-jessica-chastains-career

Footprints thought to be from the critically endangered Sumatran rhino have been found on Borneo island, where the species was believed to have been extinct for 20 years, environmental group WWF said Thursday.


The Sumatran rhino population has dropped by 50 percent over the past two decades and there are now believed to be fewer than 200 left in the world.


A team from WWF-Indonesia in February found several fresh footprints, mudpools and other evidence in West Kutai district, East Kalimantan province, suggesting the species is roaming Borneo, an island Indonesia shares with Malaysia and Brunei.


“The findings are a breath of fresh air since the Sumatran rhino in Kalimantan was believed to be extinct since the 1990s,” WWF said in a statement.


Experts at Mulawarman University in East Kalimantan confirmed the scientific findings and said the footprints most likely belonged to the Sumatran rhino.


Sumatran rhinos are commonly targeted by poachers and rampant illegal logging has destroyed much of their habitat.


["Muddy Sumatran Rhinoceros Walking Towards Viewer" on Shutterstock]






via The Raw Story http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/03/31/scientists-find-evidence-of-nearly-extinct-sumatran-rhinos-in-borneo/




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joke glasses 520x245 April Fools Day should be about jokes, not lame attempts at gaining publicity

April Fools Day is almost upon us. You can be forgiven if you hadn’t even thought about it yet. For most people it’s just a mildly diverting day of spotting pranks in amongst news articles and listening carefully to what your friends tell you in case they’re trying to trick you. For us at The Next Web, it’s become a day of inbox tedium thanks to a kind of PR pitch that has grown in popularity in the past few years.


April Fools in the media used to simply be restricted to one article in every newspaper and the occasional TV news prank. Now thanks to the Internet there are far more online news outlets and each and every one of them wants to get in on the April Fool game. That’s not all – the rise of easy online publishing tools means that everyone is a potential media outlet. That includes businesses, and those businesses want to fool us too.


Of course, there’s not much point putting together a joke video about launching your product on Mars or writing a hilarious blog post about how you’ll now be serving a daily meal to each of your server hosting customers (it’s a pun on the word ‘serve’ – geddit? HA!) if no-one notices. That’s why the past few years have seen a rise in the following type of email hitting our inboxes at TNW during the final week of March:



Dear The Next Web,


Here at Nondescript Startup That You Wouldn’t Write About Normally Because We’re Boring (TM) we’re going to be running a hilarious April Fools video on our website.


If you’d like to write about it, we can give you advance access as long as you promise not to publish your post until noon on April 1st.



Is it just us, or does this kind of thing take the fun out of April Fools Day? We love hunting down whatever crazy pranks Google has up its sleeve (if recent years are anything to go by, it’ll have a lot – unless Larry Page has done a Spring Cleaning on fun), and who knows, when tomorrow rolls around (Easter Monday too, no less, so it will probably be a slow news day) we may well share funny April Fools pranks we find from all sorts of companies. But ‘find’ is the key word in that sentence.


An April Fools joke should be something for people to discover, find funny and share. If you’re pre-briefing the media so that they’re in on it, it just becomes a depressingly tedious publicity stunt.


Treat your audience with some respect. If they’re the kind of people who engage with you anyway, they’re find and share your joke. If you have to scream for attention about it, you’re just wasting your time.


Image credit: Thinkstock







via The Next Web http://thenextweb.com/media/2013/03/31/april-fools-day-should-be-about-jokes-not-lame-attempts-at-publicity/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+TheNextWeb+%28The+Next+Web+All+Stories%29

A leading US cardinal defended Catholic opposition to gay marriage during an Easter Sunday interview, saying that sometimes the church by its nature must be “out of touch”.


The interview came days after the US Supreme Court held oral arguments on the question of same-sex marriage, which is legal in nine states but not recognized nationally because of a 1996 federal law defining marriage as between a man and a woman.


“Sometimes by nature, the Church has gotta be out of touch with concerns, because we’re always supposed to be thinking of the beyond, the eternal, the changeless,” Cardinal Timothy Dolan told ABC News’s “This Week.”


“Our major challenge is to continue in a credible way to present the eternal concerns to people in a timeless attractive way.”


“And sometimes there is a disconnect — between what they’re going through and what Jesus and his Church is teaching. And that’s a challenge for us.”


When asked what he would tell a gay couple who said they loved Jesus, loved the church and loved each other, he replied: “Well, the first thing I’d say to them is, ‘I love you, too. And God loves you. And you are made in God’s image and likeness. And we want your happiness. And you’re entitled to friendship.’


“But we also know that God has told us that the way to happiness, especially when it comes to sexual love — that is intended only for a man and woman in marriage, where children can come about naturally.”


He went on to say that the church must do more to ensure “that our defense of marriage is not reduced to an attack on gay people. And I admit, we haven’t been too good at that.”


US public opinion has shifted dramatically in recent years towards greater support for gay marriage.


A Quinnipiac University poll released earlier this month found that US Catholics support gay marriage by a larger margin than ordinary Americans despite Church teachings that forbid it.


The poll found 54 percent of Catholics support same-sex marriage while just 38 percent are opposed, compared to a 47-43 percent margin among all American voters.


Both margins represent a reversal from the 36-55 percent opposition among all voters the polling group found as recently as July 2008.






via The Raw Story http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/03/31/catholic-cardinal-dolan-our-opposition-to-same-sex-marriage-cant-be-reduced-to-an-attack-on-gay-people/

After long being sidelined for Roman excavations, an archaeological dig in western Germany has unearthed myriad traces of daily life in one of Europe’s oldest and biggest Jewish communities.


From ceramic dishes and tools to toys, animal bones and jewellery, some 250,000 artefacts have so far shed light on various periods in 2,000 years of the city of Cologne’s history.


And they include many piecing together Cologne’s little-known but rich Jewish history.


But plans to display the findings, discovered since 2007 by head archaeologist Sven Schuette’s team at the 10,000 square-metre (32,800 square-foot) city centre dig, in a new museum have proved divisive.


Berlin already hosts a large Jewish museum, and critics argue that Cologne cannot afford a new cultural project when its coffers are already in the red.


“For a very long time, archaeologists quite simply ignored the Jewish past of Cologne,” Schuette told AFP.


“Anything that wasn’t of Roman origin wasn’t excavated, since the Middle Ages were of little matter and Jews weren’t supposed to have played any role,” he lamented.


From the 10th to 12th centuries, Cologne, today Germany’s fourth-largest city, was one of Europe’s biggest cities, even ahead of Paris and London, with about 50,000 inhabitants.


Its prosperous Jewish community numbered nearly 1,000 at its height.


On Hebrew-inscribed fragments of slate, aspects of daily life from the Middle Ages have intriguingly come to light via school children’s teachings, rules and regulations, a bawdy knight’s tale and even a bakery’s customer list.


The history of the city’s Jewish quarter spans 1,000 years, from Late Antiquity to the Middle Ages, and far from being closed-off, it was open and adjoined the Roman governor’s imposing palace and later the city hall.


“Excavations show that the Jews in Cologne for a very long time were on good terms with the Christians, that their cohabitation saw long phases of peace and harmony,” Schuette said.


He pointed to the synagogue’s gothic-style and richly decorated altar having been constructed by craftsmen, possibly French, who had been working on the nearby cathedral building site.


But two events finally sounded the death knell for the Jewish quarter — a crusader massacre in 1096, followed by its eventual annihilation in 1349 when the Christians made the Jews the scapegoat for a black plague epidemic.


Archaeologists hope to see their treasures on display in the new museum by 2017.


“It won’t be a so-called ghetto museum limited to presenting religious artefacts but a museum tracing this quarter’s daily life, its integration in to the Christian city, with the positive and negative aspects,” Schuette said.


But the project has its detractors and opponents, he said, adding that an empty suitcase had been placed within the site recently, sparking a phoney bomb alert.


“And elsewhere someone engraved a swastika,” he added.


Meanwhile the opposition conservative Christian Democrats (CDU) on the local council have attacked the plan over its cost and condemned as “madness” spending more than 50 million euros ($64 million) when the city is already deeply in debt.


“Cologne cannot allow itself to build a new museum,” leading local CDU politician Volker Meertz said, also questioning how it would stand out from the Jewish museum in the German capital.


Some 2,800 people have signed a broad-based petition against the museum.


“The protest is populist. It’s not baiting the far-right but it could be a platform for the far-right and political die-hards,” Abraham Lehrer, a leading member of Cologne’s Jewish community, said.


“Social expenditure is being cut independently of the museum’s construction. If it isn’t built, nothing will change,” he told the weekly Juedische Allgemeine Zeitung.






via The Raw Story http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/03/31/excavation-of-colognes-medieval-jewish-quarter-shows-long-phases-of-peace-with-christians/